Is he just not that into you?

Single girls drive themselves crazy with the inner banter of wondering if the man they are dating is into them. This is a dilema we face almost immediately after shutting the door after he drops us off. What about the three day rule? Should I text him? Is it okay for me to ask him out? How do I tell if he really is into me? These are all common questions and if you find yourself asking them, you are not alone. The truth is, there is no right answer because at the end of the day, all men are different.

Here is my 411 on dating:

1) Men will build bridges. A good friend of mine told me this tidbit of advice. If he wants to talk to you, he will call, message, write, txt. Where there is a will, there is a way and he will connect if he wants to.

2) If he is being flighty, there is a reason. Maybe he is damaged goods? There is something wrong with either him or his feelings towards the relationship. If you sense some redflags from the get go then maybe it’s time to re-evalute your next move.

3) Trust your instincts. Ladies, we have em’. They are killer. Use them!

4) Don’t fall too hard- it’s a long way down. Once you fall for a guy, its very difficult to recover. That being said my advice- date as many options as possible. This sounds a tad on the risque side, but having options is always the best way to play these things. Your heart will heal faster and that feeling of being anxious for the next move will be eliminated.



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